Sunday, 30 December 2018

6 Signs She’s Flirting With You


I’m going to explain whether she’s flirting with you by reading her body language.

And once you learn a couple of key things to look for, you will be able to tell if a girl is flirting with you or just wasting your time.

For Example

Let’s start by looking at an example scenario. You’re at a party, and you see a girl scowling with her arms crossed and not making eye contact with anyone. She’s checking her phone constantly to either look at the time or to mentally escape the situation.

What do you think that says about her mood? To me, and to a lot of people, that suggests that she’s either uncomfortable, bored, moody because she isn’t getting the attention she wants, and/or she just straight up does not want to be there.

This is not positive and engaging body language that is inviting interaction. This could be a nervous habit, but chances are she wouldn’t be scowling if that were the case.

moody girl with her arms crossedOn the contrary, if you see a different girl at a party who is smiling, and her face is expressive with laughter and delight, she’s probably enjoying the conversation she’s having or just her time there, wherever “there” is.

happy man and woman in conversation

Body language can tell you a lot about how a person is feeling in any given situation. People are generally unconscious of their body language and what it is saying. Our bodies are books that unconsciously express what our minds are thinking and feeling.

To make your life easier, and to help you know when a woman is flirting with you, here are a number of ways to tell:

The First Sign

The first sign that a girl is flirting with you is if she is smiling. But I wouldn’t pounce on a girl who just throws you a smile. A smile isn’t your only clue. Shockingly, some women smile just because they are happy and polite! And not all of those people are Canadian!A smile in conjunction with other gestures is where you want to start off. Don’t, however, mistake a friendly smile for sexual intent.

The Second Sign

The second way to tell if a girl is flirting with you, that is not verbal, is through touch. That could be nervously touching herself, or fidgeting of any kind is an indication that someone is nervous.

If a girl touches herself anywhere like her arms, legs, twirls hair or is fidgeting with something, that is usually a sign of discomfort. And that discomfort could be a sign that she is trying to flirt.

If she makes excuses to touch you, for example, if you say something and she kind of laughs and touches your arm or her hand lingers on your shoulder. Or if you pass her something and she keeps her hand there to continue touching yours. These are signs that someone is flirting with you. A good indication is if you say something funny and she playfully hits/taps you. This kind of flirting you can see coming from a mile away.

The Third Sign

The third sign to tell if a girl is flirting with you is if she can’t take her eyes off of you. I have personally been guilty of this.

You see someone attractive and you just can’t keep your eyes off of them—even if they have moved across the room. Strong eye contact is a sign that someone could be interested in you.

Now, remember, this is just flirting. This in and of itself is not necessarily an invitation for a one night stand. It’s simply indicates curiosity, interest. So keep in mind that you need to see a couple of these signs to really get an indication if she is flirting with you.

The Fourth Sign

The fourth way to tell if someone is flirting with you that isn’t necessarily told through body language, but rather through good old fashioned verbal communication, is if the girl is essentially giving you a sales pitch about herself. When people are flirting, they want to portray the most confident version of themselves. And this can be shown if a girl is validating herself to you, trying to subtly, or not so subtly, let you know all of the benefits in knowing and interacting with her.

The Fifth Sign

The fifth way to tell if a girl is flirting with you is if she is extra playful. Is she being sarcastic, making silly little jokes? Is she playfully hitting you, trying to dance with you, wrestle, tickle? All of those things are flirty in nature, so watch out for them.

The Sixth Sign

The sixth and final way to tell if a girl is flirting with you is if she is laughing at your jokes, whether they are funny or not.  She is most likely doing this because she wants you to feel good about yourself when you’re around her, which will, in turn, make you want to be around her more.

They say laughter is the best medicine because it can cure even the most awkward of situations. Meeting new people and trying to flirt with them can be awkward, but laughter usually helps, as it brings people together, and that is the goal.

Alright, those are just six ways to tell if a girl is flirting with you. Remember that you should look for more than one of these signs if you are trying to decide if the girl that you’re talking to is flirting with you. So keep your eyes and ears peeled and happy flirting!

Tuesday, 25 December 2018

BREAKING: 2019 Presidential Debate!!! APC To Replace Buhari With A Very Intelligent Presidential Candidate, To Defeat PDP’s Atiku Abubakar


With the January 2019 Presidential Debate drawing nearer by the day, and also, with the devastating outcome of the Vice Presidential Candidates Debate, for the ruling All Progressives Congress, APC, which held last week, that saw the Candidate of the main opposition Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, Peter Obi, outshine, defeat, and humiliate the Candidate of the APC, Yemi Osinbajo, there are speculations, as well as suggestions, that the ruling APC would replace its Presidential Candidate, Muhammadu Buhari, for the much awaited Debate, and the forthcoming elections, next year.

Yemi Osinbajo, who is currently the Vice President of Nigeria, was before last week’s Debate, seen as a very intelligent Professor of Law, and probably the smartest member of the APC, in general. However, watching Peter Obi of the PDP humiliate and cause the Vice President to stutter several times on live television, has sent fears into the APC camp, as to their fate in the forthcoming general elections, which every Nigerian and the world at large, are anticipating.

Rumour has it that the APC camp is more fearful about the outcome of the Presidential Debate, as their Presidential Candidate, Muhammadu Buhari, has not been known as one to participate in such an intellectual activity in the past, and may be forced to participate in the coming one, because an excuse for his non-participation this time around, could cause the party the Presidential election, in 2019.

Reacting, Salisu Abdulai, an Advocate for a Greater Nigeria, and Editor-in-Chief, Post-Nigeria, said: “The 2019 Presidential Debate is not going to be overlooked this time around, it is not an event the Candidate of the APC, President Muhammadu Buhari, would be able to say he is not going to attend this time, as many Nigerians, and the world, will be watching, and are even watching already. I am even more shocked we are having a conversation as to whether or not a sitting President, who wants to be re-elected into Office, will attend a Debate. It is even most ridiculous to hear that the APC has recruited whoever, to come prepare its Candidate, a sitting President, our sitting President, for a Debate that concerns how he has been running his country for almost four years now. Where is this ever heard of? Are they going to teach him about what he has been doing in the past four years? Or what to do in the next four years? Or are they going to teach him how to form sentences or speak English, or what? This totally threw me off! My suggestion for the APC as a party, is to put politics and sentiments aside, and find itself a good and vibrant Candidate, that can confidently approach any situation, because of his or her understanding of the the problems facing this nation, and the future projected problems that are likely to face the nation, and come up with workable solutions. It is that simple.

“Also, when I hear them say that President Buhari is the best Candidate the party has to offer, I feel pity for those with this conclusion, as I believe the APC is made up of so many brilliant members, both old and young, male and female, who are vibrant, and can rise to the very important occasion of leading this country to greatness.”

What are your thoughts? Let us know in the comments.

Governor, Senator Killed In Helicopter Crash On Christmas Eve


The crash scene.

Martha Erika Alonso, the governor of the Mexican state of Puebla, and her husband, Rafael Moreno Valle, who was a senator and former governor, were on Monday killed in a helicopter crash, the country’s president said.

“My deepest condolences to the relatives of Senator Rafael Moreno Valle and his wife, governor of Puebla Martha Erika Alonso,” President Andres Manuel Lopez Obrador wrote on Twitter.

“I assume the commitment to investigate the causes” and  “tell the truth about what happened,” Lopez Obrador wrote.

It was learned that the helicopter’s two pilots and an assistant to the senator also died in the crash.

According to AFP, the aircraft went down 10 minutes after taking off in the Santa Maria Coronango area of Puebla, and the cause of the crash is still unknown.

Late Alonso was sworn in as governor on December 14 after an electoral tribunal certified her victory in July polls.

The deceased was the first woman to occupy the position in Puebla, where her husband was governor from 2011 to 2017.

According to the local constitution, the state legislature will have to appoint an interim governor and to call an extraordinary vote that must be held in three to five months, AFP reports.

Pogba Is My Biggest Challenge At Manchester United – Caretaker Coach Ole Solskjaer


Ole Gunnar Solskjaer admitted getting the best out of Paul Pogba is one of his major challenges as Manchester United caretaker boss.

Pogba, United’s club record £89millon signing and a World Cup winner in the summer with France, started the last three Premier League games on the bench under former boss Jose Mourinho.

Mourinho mistrusted Pogba and clashed with his most high-profile player on numerous occasions, stripping him of the captaincy and berating him publicly as their relationship broke down.

Solskjaer worked with Pogba when he was in charge of United reserves and is convinced he can unlock his full potential and restore his confidence and form, something Mourinho helped destroy

Pogba is set to be handed his first Premier League start since December 1 with Saturday’s trip to Cardiff, Solskajer’s debut in charge since taking over as temporary boss following Mourinho’s dismissal.

“He’s a World Cup winner,” said Solskjaer. “Paul is a terrific lad and when I had him as a kid he was always the happy-go-lucky lad.

“He hasn’t changed, personality-wise. He’s a better player, of course, and he’s one that I want to get the best out of. “You have so many quality players that I want to get the best out of. He’s no different to anyone else in that respect. “I’m not sure about saying the power has gone to the dressing-room. The power is with the manager.

“He picks the team, the tactics, the strategy. The philosophy is in these walls. “That legacy is more important than any player power. Being a Manchester United player is a privilege and I think all of them want to succeed here.”

Solskjaer’s first task is to restore the feel-good factor to a squad left broken by Mourinho’s aggressive and autocratic style of management and get players like Pogba playing with freedom and without fear.

“BAD NEWS” for Manchester United Fans


Despite the club triggering the one year extension clause in his deal, The agent of Manchester United forward Anthony Martial has revealed his client will not be staying at Old Trafford for the long term.

Martial’s contract was due to expire next summer, but United have activated a one-year extension clause which will keep the 23-year-old at the club until at least 2020. However, it is unclear whether United will be able to agree a new long-term deal with Martial, who is their top scorer in the Premier League this season.

Martial’s agent Philippe Lamboley told French radio station RMC: “I am very pessimistic about discussions going positively. “They have already sent us offers that do not meet our expectations, starting on bases very far from our wishes. “We are far from agreement, for the time being.”

Despite his success in front of goal, Martial is still not an automatic first choice at Old Trafford – and he was on the bench for Sunday’s 3-1 defeat at Liverpool.

According to Sky Sports, earlier this season  Martial had turned down a long-term contract offer, after his agent had said in the summer that his client wanted to leave the club.

Do you think Martial will be right to leave Man Utd ? Share your thoughts below 

Monday, 24 December 2018

Kenya: Cancer of Food Pipe is Leading Killer in the Country


Oesophagus cancer is now the leading killer in Kenya, overtaking cervix, breast, stomach and prostate cancers, according to recent data from World Health Organisation.

This was attributed to late diagnosis, with experts saying most of the cases are normally diagnosed in their late stages. Food pipe cancer could also be linked to volcanic soils, alcohol and tobacco chewing or smoking.

According to the data, there will be 33, 978 cancer deaths in Kenya by the end of this year.

The data released on Tuesday by Dr Anne Ng'ang'a, head of the National Cancer Control Programme, revealed that in 2018, there were 4,351 deaths resulting from oesophagus cancer, accounting for 13.5 per cent.

BREAST CANCER

This was followed by cervix uteri cancer at 3,286 (10 per cent), breast cancer came third at 2,553 (7.7 per cent), stomach (2,068), prostrate (1,663), colorectum (1,463) and liver cancer (1,331) in 2018.

Oesophagus and stomach cancer patients have trouble swallowing, experience upper stomach pain, heartburns, bloating and fast loss of weight.

Last year, breast cancer was leading followed by cervical, prostrate and oesophagus cancer.

However, in Africa cancer of the cervix uteri is the leading killer, with 81,687 deaths reported in 2018, followed by breast cancer (74,072).

PROSTATE CANCER

Liver cancer came third at 63,562 with prostate cancer in fourth position with about 43,298 deaths. There were no deaths recorded from oesophagus cancer in Africa.

The International Agency for Research on Cancer's Globocan 2018 data shows that the disease will claim 18,772 women compared with 14,215 men yearly.

The research also estimated that there will be 47,887 new cancer cases in all cancer types, in both sexes and all ages by the end of 2018.

Women also lead in new cancer cases, with 28,688 getting the disease and breast cancer leading at 5,985, followed by cervix uteri at 5,250 new cases compared to 19,199 men, representing 56 per cent of the total new cases.

TREATMENT

In men, prostate cancer came first, recording 2,864 new cases followed by oesophagus cancer at 2,384; colorectum came third with 1,134 cases.

In children aged between zero and 19 years, leukaemia is leading at 16 per cent, followed by non-Hodgkin's lymphoma at 15 per cent, kidney 6.4 per cent ad others at 44 per cent

Doctors link the high death rates to late diagnosis, shame in seeking treatment, low income, and fear of being found that they have the disease.

Zinedine Zidane opens SHOCK talks to re-sign former star for Manchester United


Manchester United managerial candidate Zinedine Zidane is reportedly in talks to sign Monaco striker Radamel Falcao for his next club.

The French tactician is also being linked with the Juventus job by Don Balon, in the event that current boss Massimiliano Allegri fails to deliver the Champions League title this season.

However, Zidane is also a top priority target to be next Man Utd manager, and it seems he’s a big fan of what Falcao could offer his next side.

Don Balon claim the former Real Madrid manager has approached Falcao over a link up, with the Colombia international supposedly unhappy with his current club.

Although Falcao flopped badly in his single season at Old Trafford, the 32-year-old joined on the back of a serious injury, and at a time when the team were a bit of a mess under Louis van Gaal.


Sunday, 23 December 2018

SHOCKING!! See The Moment WIZKID Showed The World That He Belongs To EIYE CONFRATERNITY [Photo Evidence]

It is no more a news that some Nigerian celebrities belongs to one secret fraternity or the other, and they grab every opportunity to showcase their loyalty to their respective secret cult.

One celebrity who recently shows that he is not scared to be identified with fraternity is our own Starboy, Wizkid after sharing a picture on his Instagram page with a suspicious caption.

He shared a picture with Skepta and wrote;

“Fly high gang land! ❤️ 🦅”

See his post below;

Unique and Rare to find Guy, I don't do Normal i stick with Special, i am a big fan of my COUNTRY and i love Entertainment, Politics and Sports.

Popular Prophet Predicts Winners Of 2019 Elections


Primate Ayodele

The Leader and Founder of INRI Evangelical Spiritual Church, Primate Elijah Ayodele, has said the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) would find it hard to defeat President Muhammadu Buhari in 2019.

Speaking to newsmen, Ayodele disclosed that if the PDP had given its presidential ticket to Senate President Bukola Saraki, the party will easily unseat Buhari.

He said: “I said it the other time and I still maintain it, if PDP had given the ticket to Bukola Saraki, they will win because it’s only Saraki that can unseat Buhari but PDP stakeholders have not done what they are supposed to do. I said it in 2015 that Jonathan maybe the last president from PDP. I’m still standing on it unless they take a quick step and that is for Atiku and Saraki to do the right thing. If only they will do the right thing, that is only when PDP can win. For now, I’m only seeing Atiku and Saraki playing.

“That’s all I’m saying on this matter. PDP will find it difficult to wrestle power from President Buhari come February 2019 election because they refused to do the right thing from the beginning. Unless they put heads together and do the right thing, APC will still come back.”

The clergyman also predicted the parties that would win at the Governorship Elections in some states in the country.

Primate Ayodele said: “For Lagos State, it would be business as usual but APC will still win. In Oyo State, it’s going to be tough. The PDP man there has missed it; it’s still going back to APC.

“Ogun State is a troubled state. The election should’ve favored APC, but APC may not have it in Ogun State. Don’t underestimate Amosun’s candidate, or the candidate from GNI but PDP will never get the ticket in Ogun.

“For Delta State, PDP will take the state. For Rivers, though it’s a do or die affair; Wike will still come back. Kano and Kaduna is for APC. Then for Imo State, if the PDP man is serious, he can take the state but unfortunately, I don’t see him to be serious and if APC puts their house in order in that state, then they can win that state. APC may win Anambra State for the presidency. Ebonyi and Cross River States may go to APC if PDP is not careful in those states. This is because PDP has not done what they are supposed to do.”

What are some goal scoring records in football that Ronaldo and Messi can't break?

Rahul Raut

Spellbound.

210w ago

Most number of career goals ( Pele 1279 goals)Most world cup goals ( Klose 16 goals)Most goals in One World Cup ( 13 goals by Fontaine in 1958 )Most hat-tricks in a carrer ( Pele 92 )Fastest hat-trick ( Fowler 4 mins 33 secs)Fastest goal in CL ( Bünc 10 sec. vs Real Madrid )Most own goals :PThese are some goal scoring records which seems impossible for Messi/Ronaldo to break,but can not rule out the possibillity given their instinct for goal barring first one.

Abhishek Ojha

B.E Electronics and Communication Engineering, Acropolis Institute of Technology and Research, Indore (2019)

41w ago

· Author has 474 answers and 1.4m answer views

5 goals in space of 9 minutes by Robert Lewandowski. He was on fire that day ,what restraints Ronaldo and Messi from that is one has lack of good passers in team while other player's team plays possession football.

Fastest goal as a substitute by Nicklas Bendtner (1.8 seconds) as they rarely come as substitutes :P

Gaurav

90w ago

· Author has 229 answers and 86.4k answer views

Of course, even if they are the nearest to that feat they will still not able to break it.Yes, that record held by Pele for more than three decades.One more record that I can think of is the International goal record held by Ali Daei of Iran, 109 goals, even Pele had 77 goals for Brazil national team. It is really difficult for Cristiano,Messi to break it but, only Neymar can break it if his scoring stream for Brazil continues.Talking about the WC goals, I think it is difficult for both to achieve that feat, maybe Muller and Neymar can set a new record but not sure about Messi and Cristiano.And the last one set by Pele, the hattrick record 92 times is also not possible for both currently.These are the only major goal scoring record I can think of.

Apart from that I think they have broken all the major records be it the CL goalscoring feat,they are record goalscorers of their national teams, in La Liga they keep breaking records like aliens;they are top guys in scoring from freekicks,hattricks,giving numerous assists at least in La Liga.

So yeah, there is a reason why they are G.O.A.T

Achmatshamym

88w ago

Most career goal scored in football (Pele 1279 goals in 1363 games)

Fastest Fifa World cup goal ( Hakan sukur 11 seconds)

Fastest goal in olympic football (Neymar 14 second)

Most goal scored in FIFA world cup final match (Pele 3 goals,zidane 3 goals ,Vava 3 goals )

Most goal scored in Fifa world cup tournament ( Miroslav klose 16 goals)

Most goal scored in Copa america tournament (Zizinho , Norberto mendez 17 goals)

Most goal scored in Euro cup tournament final match( Gerd muller,oliver bierhoff,hrubesch 2 goals)

Most goal scored in Club world cup/Intercontinental club cup final match (Pele 7 goals)

Most goal scored in confederations cup tournament ( Ronaldinho 9 goals,C Blanco 9 goals)

Most goal scored in Uefa/Europa league cup ( Henrik Larsson 40 goals)

Most goal scored in Copa libertadores cup ( Alberto Spencer 54 goals)

)Indeed Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo are truly great players but they have not really make an impact on football greatest tournament Fifa World cup like other great players such as Pele,Maradona,Ronaldo Luis de Lima,Kempes,…so if they win world cup next year then they'll be ….!

Michael Golley

3 years writing for various popular football blogs and publications.

141w ago

Fernando Peyroteo goal scoring ratio for Sporting Lisbon was far better than Messi!

Also how about 19 goals from a centrehalf? Top 5 absolutely absurd scoring records - Dispensable Soccer

Massive Jubilation In APC, As Africa’s Hero Of Democracy, Goodluck Jonathan Sends Powerful Message To President Buhari


Former President, Goodluck Jonathan, has extended his felicitations to President Muhammadu Buhari, on the occasion of his 76th birthday.

Jonathan in a message which he personally signed, thanked God for blessing President Buhari with the grace of a long life while noting that President Buhari has, “contributed so much to the development of Nigeria, having served the nation in different capacities, and always giving his best whenever he is called upon to serve.”

The message read: “Your life has been a life of great service to our dear nation, having served as a brave Soldier, Governor, Minister of Petroleum, Head of State, and now President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. I join you, your family, well-wishers, and fellow Nigerians, to give thanks to Almighty God for the gift of a long life. I wish you good health and more productive years, as you continue to lend your skills and energy to the task of building a Nigeria of our dreams.”

What are your thoughts? Let us know

Double deal DONE: Zidane says 'yes' to Manchester United offer and immediately wraps up €100million signing


Manchester United transfer gossip is really flowing at the moment and there’s some big news coming out of Spain just a couple of days after Jose Mourinho’s Old Trafford sacking.

The Red Devils are bound to be busy behind the scenes at the moment as they eye up Zinedine Zidane as their next manager, while the former Real Madrid boss will surely have transfers high on his agenda.

According to a stunning revelation fromDon Balon, Barcelona forward Ousmane Dembele has decided to snub Paris Saint-Germain in order to join Zidane at United.

The report states the France international will cost €100million, and this could well be a match made in heaven from a United point of view.

MUFC need more talented attackers in their squad after the struggles of Alexis Sanchez and Romelu Lukaku, and Dembele is a huge young talent who would surely only improve if given more chances.

Zinedine Zidane to Manchester United after hugely successful Real Madrid spell?

The 21-year-old also seems a perfect fit for his fellow Frenchman Zidane, who will no doubt be eager to give him a key role in his side.

Capable of playing up front or out wide, Dembele seems an important addition for this struggling squad, and if it’s correct that Zidane’s appointment has swung it in terms of his future that’s huge news for the Premier League giants.

Ousmane Dembele to Manchester United alongside Zinedine Zidane?

Lady Vomits Money After Being Used By Yahoo Boy


According to the Nigerian Tribune, a lady popularly known as Taiye has said to have vomitted clean 500naira notes in Warri, Delta state.

The incident had said to have happened today being Sunday at about 7:40 a.m as people were seen gathered under a story building besides JJC junction along Effurun-sapele road uvwe local govt to watch the lady as she displayed what could be tagged as an ‘ abomination’.

There were no report claiming that the suspect fraudster was arrested or if the matter was reported to the police in the area.

Romelu Lukaku leaves Manchester United


Romelu Lukaku has left the Manchester United squad after he was given some days off, his boss Ole Gunnar Solskjaer has confirmed. The Belgian star, 25, is unlikely to return before the end of the month and could miss United’s busy festive schedule. Lukaku has been away from Old Trafford all week and could miss the two Premier League games against Cardiff and Huddersfield.

Speaking during his first press conference as caretaker boss, Solskjaer confirmed: “Yes, he [Romelu Lukaku] has had a couple of days off, so I’ve not seen him yet.” Meanwhile, the Norwegian boss revealed he also hasn’t seen Alexis Sanchez – who reportedly won an ill-considered bet regarding Jose Mourinho’s sacking – yet

Solskjaer added: “I’ve not seen Alexis because he’s on his way back as well, so I’m looking forward to seeing them. That was decided before me, so that’s fine.” Solskjaer also revealed he would love the United job on a permanent basis – after only being given the job until the end of the season.

The ex-Molde chief said: “When you get a job like this and they ask you to sign for six months you say yeah. I’m happy to help out and my job now for the next six months is to do as well as I can and move the club forward as well as I can. I understand there are so many managers who would love to be manager of Manchester United and I am one of them. But it is not something we’ve talked about, they’ll do a process now for the next six months.”

Solskjaer went on to say he wants his stars to play in the right way – and that’s the most important thing for now. He added: “I think the first thing is the first game, think about getting my principles into the boys, get the players to understand how I want them to play and let’s take the results later on, see how many points we can gather. This club has made many, many points before but I’m not going to set that target now. My job is to help the players, make them grasp the opportunity. They all want be part of Manchester United.”

Solskjaer also lauded Sir Alex Ferguson for his influence on him during his time as a player. The Norwegian said: “He’s influenced me with everything to be fair, the way he’s dealt with people the way he was manager of the club, how he kept 25 international players happy and hungry wanting to improve. But also the staff in and around the place, he’s been my mentor but I didn’t understand early on he’d be my mentor.

The untold truth of Jet Li


Whenever kung fu comes up in conversation, the movies of Bruce Lee and Jackie Chan are inevitably discussed, but in his native China, Jet Li is held in equally high regard. Born Li Lian Jie on April 26, 1963, the Beijing-native began training aged 8 after his gym teacher put him in touch with legendary Wushu master Wu Bin. He wasn't a "prodigy" student, however; in fact, becoming such an accomplished fighter was a real struggle.

"It was my coach Wu Bin who helped me steer clear of all obstacles and encouraged me never to give up," Li said (via Kung Fu Magazine). "His admonitions and his patience in guiding me along will always remain in my heart of hearts." Li lost his dad when he was a toddler, and Wu Bin is said to have become a father figure over the years, guiding him to greatness along the way. He made the national Wushu team and won several championships, but Li decided to retire at 17 to concentrate on a career in the movies.

He kicked some serious ass in his 1982 debut feature Shaolin Temple, and went on to make a name for himself overseas (The Guardian called him "the Fred Astaire of kung fu"), but today Li is more of a lover than a fighter. His passion is now in philanthropy, though he's been in need of some help himself over the years. From near-death experiences to sham marriages, this is the untold truth of Jet Li.

He was a pre-teen street performer

In 1973, the legendary Bruce Lee passed away under mysterious circumstances, leaving China, America, and the rest of the movie-loving world in shock. The following year, Li (just 11 years old at the time) was doing a kung fu demonstration in Hong Kong when he was approached by a movie producer and asked how he felt about becoming the next Bruce Lee. Speaking toTalkAsia (via CNN) in 2003, Li (whose English wasn't quite as accomplished back then) recalled the encounter.

"When movie studio producer talk to me, 'Hi, little kid, when you grow up, you want to become action star?'" Li said. "I say, 'Okay, why not!' So since then, every year the producer came to me to look at me. Says, 'Okay, you are still a little boy, can't make movie. I want to wait [for] you.'" He greatly admired Lee, but as a young boy he couldn't imagine that his name would ever be mentioned in the same breath.

"I remember I found him very talented, a very talented actor and martial artist," Li added. "But I don't know how to make movie, I don't know how to become this, I didn't think of it that deep. I was just 11." Li had turned 17 by the time the producer decided he was ready to make his debut feature film. He was cast in Shaolin Temple, the first in a series of movies that established him as a star in China.

President Nixon asked him to be his bodyguard

1974 turned out to be quite the eventful year for Li. Not only did the 11-year-old find himself on the watchlist of Chinese movie studios, he also got to perform in front of the U.S. president. Li and the Chinese national Wushu team were invited to the White House, where they put on a show for Richard Nixon, whose time in the Oval Office would soon come to an end because of his involvement in the Watergate scandal. Nixon wasn't very popular at the time, and after he saw what Li could do, he apparently offered him the job of protecting him.

According to We Are The Mighty, the president jokingly (we assume, at least) asked if Li would consider becoming his personal muscle once he was old enough to work. "Young man, your kung fu is very impressive," Nixon reportedly said. "How about being my bodyguard when you grow up?" Li's extremely loyal reply reportedly left those in attendance stunned. "No, I don't want to protect any individual," he said. "When I grow up, I want to defend my one billion Chinese countrymen!"

The silence that fell over the room was broken by then-Secretary of State, Henry Kissinger. "Heavens, such a young boy and he already speaks like a diplomat," Kissinger quipped. A generation of hostilitybetween China and the U.S. seemed to be coming to an end, but some foul play is said to have taken place on the Chinese Wushu team's tour of America.

He thinks the U.S. government bugged his hotel room

During his candid 2003 interview withTalkAsia (via CNN), Li was asked if there was any truth to the rumors that his hotel room had been bugged during his first visit to the United States, and his answer was shocking. The Nixon administration were found to have spied on their political rivals using hidden mics, and the Chinese government were apparently very wary about sending the Wushu team on a tour of America, knowing that they could potentially be targeted for information. They were so wary, in fact, that they warned the traveling team members to be careful about what they said at all times, including while they were in the privacy of their hotel rooms.

"It's true," Li confirmed when asked about the bugging. "At that time, China and America just started [a] relationship between the two countries. It is so funny! When I went there I wanted to try [to see if] they have a bug or not. So in New York, a big hotel, I talked to the mirrors." Li claims that he said out loud that he would really like some chocolate and ice cream. To his surprise (and amusement), the sweet treats he wished for in his private quarters miraculously materialized.

"So, next day, I opened the door," he continued. "Chocolates, ice cream, bananas — everything is on my table!" Li also discussed the incident when he returned to the States to promote hisdisappointing English language sci-fi actioner The One in 2001.

He married his first wife out of duty, not love

Li has four daughters — two with his ex-wife, Huang Qiuyan, and two with his current wife, Nina Li Chi. The action star and Chi (a former Miss Asia) will be celebrating their 20th wedding anniversaryin 2019, and they appear to be as happy as ever. Li has managed to remain good friends with his first wife, despite the fact that he openly admitted he only married her out of a sense of duty.

Li and Qiuyan (a teammate from the Chinese national Wushu side who also became a martial arts actor) had known each other from childhood. Their long friendship took an unexpected turn when they were filming a movie called Martial Arts of Shaolin together. Li broke his leg on set, and he was blown away by the level of support his co-star gave him. She remained by his side as he returned to full health, at which point Li felt it was only right to propose. Plus, she was loaded.

"My family was poor, her family was well-off," Li explained (via ContactMusic). "She often took care of me. That's how it happened. I didn't know what love was. In terms of how much emotion each person devoted, she maybe gave 90 percent or 80 percent. At most I gave… I still haven't figured out. When we parted, we were really like friends." According to QQ (via Jayne Stars), Li gave Qiuyan $50,000 as a gift when she remarried in 2005.

He was almost killed in the 2004 tsunami

The devastation caused by the Boxing Day tsunami of 2004 cannot be understated. On December 26, a 9.2 magnitude earthquake shook the seabed off the coast of Sumatra, Indonesia, sending 40-foot waves hurtling towards land. In the end, a staggering 230,000 people lost their lives across 14 different countries, one of which was the Maldives. Li and his family were vacationing on one of the 26 ring-shaped atolls that make up the South Asian republic when the tsunami struck, and they had a very lucky escape.

"The waves came really quickly and formed swirls," Li explained during a Hong Kong fundraiser (via SantaBanta). "I carried my daughters and pulled my maid and ran. I'd only walked three steps when I realized that the water had already come up to my waist." In a matter of seconds, the idyllic setting turned into something from a nightmare. "When I looked back, everything I saw minutes ago was gone," Li continued. "Everything was surrounded by the ocean. The houses collapsed. I continued to run but the water was already up to my mouth."

Luckily, Li, his family and his maid all survived to tell the tale, which the actor apparently intends to do. In 2017, reportssuggested that he was planning to star in a film about the tsunami, a China-Indonesia co-production. The story of fellow survivor Maria Belon and her incredibly resilient family was given the big-screen treatmentin 2012's The Impossible.

The experience changed his life

Surviving the tsunami changed Li's outlook on life. The actor had an epiphany following the disaster, deciding that he wanted to dedicate himself to philanthropy after being "deeply moved" by the treatment he and his family received from total strangers. If it weren't for the actions of four brave men who swam to Li's aid after he screamed for help, his two youngest daughters would have likely drowned.

"The experience of surviving the chaos and witnessing the devastation caused by this natural disaster has changed me forever," he told Alliance. "During the recovery period in the Maldives, I was deeply moved to see that everyone who was able to help willingly pitched in. Never once did anyone ask 'Where are you from?' or 'What nationality are you?' I wondered: was it possible to keep that spirit alive and transcend traditional boundaries to help humanity at large?"

To satisfy his curiosity, Li set up his own foundation. "I realized that all the money and power in the world would not have saved me from the water," he said in a detailed piece for Newsweek. "That night I decided that I couldn't wait until I was retired; I had to do something right away." The whole ordeal put life into perspective for him. "I had spent the first 41 years of my life thinking about Jet Li first, wanting to prove I was special, wanting to prove I was a star."

Aaliyah's death hit him hard

Li's first appearance in a Hollywood movie was as the villain in 1998's Lethal Weapon 4but he wasn't used to playing a bad guy, especially one that kicks ladies in the face. He got his chance to play the hero two years later when he was cast as the male lead in 2000's Romeo Must Die, starring opposite Aaliyah. Like Li, the R&B singer-turned-actress was trying to earn her stripes in Tinseltown. Sadly, she died before she really got the chance to establish herself.

On August 25, 2001, the 22-year-old boarded a small plane headed to Miami. The aircraft would never reach its destination. Aaliyah and several staffers from her record label (who had been with her in the Bahamas filming a video for her song "Rock the Boat") perished when the plane crashed. The pilot reportedly warned Aaliyah and her party that the small aircraft was dangerously overloaded, but he apparently relented and took off anyway, possibly with a faulty engine. For those that knew Aaliyah, the circumstances took second place to the grief.

When Li returned to Vancouver (whereRomeo was filmed) for the movie Rogue, he found being back there hard. "I have some memories of this very beautiful city but it still makes me think about Aaliyah," he toldIGN. "We worked together here for a few months. She was such a talented girl and some locations when you pass by every day, you still think about her."

He turned down a role in The Matrix

Romeo Must Die didn't blow the critics away (it only managed 33 percent on theTomatometer), but Li was considered one of the highlights. The box office numberswere a little more convincing. The film managed to rake in $91 million worldwide from a budget of $25 million, which was seen as a pretty decent haul at the time. All things considered it was a success for Li, who felt so comfortable with his future prospects that he turned down a role in theMatrix sequels.

Speaking to TalkAsia (via CNN), the star explained that he had to make a choice between The Matrix (he was reportedly offered the part of Seraph) and Hero. "Sometimes you get something and sometimes you lose something," Li said. He claimed to be a fan of the Wachowskis, but he wasn't a fan of what the sibling directors did to the action genre. "After The Matrix, everybody do action movie with people fighting while flying around," Li complained. "Suddenly everyone can fight. Man can do, girl can do, little boy can do, even cartoon can do the same thing. In this movie, everyone really can do."

His decision to favor Hero over The Matrix sequels paid off, as the Chinesewuxia film won wide approval. "With death-defying action sequences and epic historic sweep, Hero offers everything a martial arts fan could ask for," Rotten Tomatoes critics concluded. The movie was Certified Fresh with a score of 95 percent.

He renounced his American citizenship

After his breakthrough in America, Li found himself spending more and more time in the States. He decided that it made sense to apply for American citizenship, which he was duly granted, but he renounced both his American and Chinese citizenship in 2009 in order to move to Singapore, which doesn't allow dual nationals. The actorreportedly spent around $15 million on a swanky three-floor property and moved his family to the tax-friendly island, following in the footsteps of Facebook co-founder Eduardo Saverin and fellow martial arts movie legend Jackie Chan.

The fact that he likely pays half the amount of tax he would be paying in the States was surely a factor, but according to Nomad Capitalist, Singapore's excellent education system also influenced Li's decision. But how did the people of China (the ones he swore allegiance to while a guest at the White House) take the news? Traditionally, Chinese celebrities that ditch the homeland for Singapore are dubbed traitors and lose major credit (actress Gong Li was pilloriedonline when she became a Singaporean in 2008), though this didn't happen with Li.

According to the South China Morning Post, polls revealed that only half of the Chinese citizens asked about Li leaving China objected to it, with one fan even suggesting that they would like to do the same. "It's [his] right to live where [he] wants to," the blogger wrote. "If I could, I will follow suit. [Singapore's] passport is better."

Is his health failing?

Rumors that Li was in grave health spread like wildfire in 2018 after a photo of the actor looking old and worryingly frail wentviral, forcing his manager to respond. Steven Chasman told USA Today that the story was "much ado about nothing" and Li was simply in a bad light when he posed for a quick snap with a fan. "It's one picture and people are making these interpretations from it," Chasman said. "If you took a picture [of] me at the wrong angle and wrong time of the day, I could look frail as well."

Fans were quick to blame Li's grave new look on his hyperthyroidism, a condition that makes the thyroid gland produce too many hormones. He was diagnosed in 2010, and while he's been able to keep it under control using medication, his hyperthyroidism has often been a cause for concern among fans. "The web has been abuzz with news that I'm going to be wheelchair-bound," Li said in 2016 (via The Straits Times). "Even my friends are concerned and are asking how I am." The action star joked that a wheelchair company had been spreading the rumors to boost sales and reassured fans that he was a-okay. "There is nothing to worry about my health," he said.

Li looked capable as ever in behind-the-scenes footage from a 2017 short film, and Disney is clearly happy with his health, as the Mouse House has cast him in its upcoming live-action remake of Mulan.

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