Nowadays many couples are faced with the fact that they have to have
relationships at a distance because of various reasons. We understand
how difficult it is and try to help you adapt to this situation.
At first, you will feel that distance is the worst test in your life. But if you read our tips on
how to save your long-distance relationship, you will easily overcome this.
- Don’t forget about communication
Try to communicate via SMS, calls, Skype, and email as often as
possible. It is important to keep in touch and occupy an important place
in each other’s daily life.
- Learn to say compliments from a distance
Don’t be afraid to overdo with sentimental words. The fact is that in
a normal conversation, a large part of your positive attitude to the
interlocutor is shown by look, gestures, and intonation. Telephone
communication “hides” all this and a person, who speaks in the usual
manner, seems much colder.
- Do some things together
Lovers, who live together, spend most of the time not on
conversations, but on some kind of joint pastime. And it’s also possible
at a distance. For example, watch the same program or movie at the same
time, play the game on the web, cook dinner while talking on Skype,
sing the same song in karaoke or read the same book.
- Keep a sense of community
Despite the fact that the development of the personality and
individuality of partners is undoubtedly a positive moment, sometimes it
can go so far that your paths will no longer intersect. It is very
important to develop romantic, gentle, and funny rituals.
- Dream about your joint future
Discuss your joint future. Relationships at a distance require
prospects, otherwise one of you will doubt whether it is worth
continuing this relationship. Both of you have to understand that sooner
or later you will be together.
- Don’t try to control your partner
While you are both interested in a relationship, you will support
them. But as soon as you or your partner decide that a relationship
doesn’t satisfy, or just another person will appear in the life of one
of you, your relationship will end.
- Maintain sexual interest
Probably, it is not necessary to convince you that the intimate part
of the relationship plays a significant role in the building of a happy
life. And it is equally difficult for both men and women to get used to
the lack of an intimate life. It is important to build your
communication on the Internet or on the phone in such a way that you and
your partner have the opportunity to compensate the lack of an intimate
life. In other words, you need to maintain a sexual interest, so that
your partner will want only you even at a distance.
- Add romance
Try to make your relationship more emotional and sensual. Even if you
have never been a romantic person, perhaps now is the time to learn. So
you can show your love to a person dear to you. Use poetry, surprises,
watch romantic films together via Skype, and write romantic messages to
each other.
- Don’t lie to each other
It is very convenient to lie in a relationship at a distance because
your partner will never know that. The problem is that you get used to
lying. When you come back, it will be difficult to disaccustom yourself
of lying and hide some uncomfortable moments. Of course, you can’t check
whether your soulmate doesn’t lie to you. But, at least, don’t lie to
yourself. This will greatly help your further relationship.
- Don’t be jealous
Is love at a distance possible without jealousy? It is almost
impossible! But all you can do is to trust your partner. This must be
taken for granted. If you are not ready, it’s better to break up.
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