“Sex is the MAIN thing that keeps married couples together when the going gets tough”…these words were uttered by a married 40 year old man.
Sex, GOOD sex is one of the most powerful tools in the world. It has ruined kings. it makes women weak too because believe it or not, women love sex more than men(when it’s done right). It is extremely difficult for any woman to leave a relationship where the sex is good. I’ll give you a scenario based on a real person, she is a manager in a top company. She makes good money which enables her to live in a fancy house, drive a nice car…you know, all these material things that make people feel like they are ‘successful’. Anyway, her man, is quite the opposite. He doesn’t work. She maintains him. she has no issue with it because he is good in bed. Actually, she is more like his slave. She does anything and everything he asks her to.
For men, their pleasure is highly dependent on the satisfaction they give the woman. That is why if a man has sex for 2 hours (Ok is it possible to be this long? I was just exaggerating. But really , is it?)..anyway I was saying, if a man, a good lover, has sex for 2 hours and he does not cum he will be OK as long as his lady is satisfied. The ego of a man makes him more proud about satisfying rather than being satisfied.
Now, much as sex is very important there are people who will marry a ‘less capable lover’ because marriage is about a lot more than sex. Like if the great lover is not what one pictures in a life partner: not ambitious enough, not kind…they make pick the less capable one. But still sex remains a very important department in marriage and this person might occasionally go looking for ‘the number 1 performer’ to give them a good time. This is the ugly truth.
So how do we make our relationship strong and remain faithful using something more powerful than good sex? Well, there’s no certain answer for this, but for a long time religion has helped many people to stay faithful. Religion restricts unfaithful activity with the threat of hell. Other than that, churches have couple counselling and mentors who often guide people to remain in the path of God. Faith and practice of religious teachings helps many couples maintain strong relationships.
John Mikel Obi and his Middlesbrough teammates were given Sunday as a rest day to clear their heads after they were beaten 3-1 by Swansea City at the Liberty Stadium on Saturday.
The hosts went ahead in the 34th minute from the penalty spot converted by Matt Grimes and Wayne Routledge made it 2-0 to the Swans four minutes later, as Boro struggled to keep their shape.
Boro came out more determined in the second half with intent to salvage something from the game in order to keep their championship play-off ambition alive rather it was Connor Roberts who added the 3rd goal for Swansea after collecting a perfect pass from Bersant Celina who had also set up Routledge’s goal.
However, Boro grabbed a consolation goal in the 81st minute through George Saville.
Boro has now lost six games in a row including a loss against Bristol City, Norwich City, Aston Villa Preston North End and Brentford, conceding 9 goals and scoring two in the process.
The Tony Pulis side is 8th on the Championship log with 58 points in 40 matches played, 26 points below table toppers Norwich.
After the long trip back from Wales on Saturday night, Middlesbrough’s players were given the option as to whether or not they wanted to train at Rockliffe on Sunday.
A day off was scheduled, with manager Tony Pulis urging the players to “clear their heads” after the defeat at the Liberty Stadium, Boro’s sixth consecutive defeat.
But the manager revealed that a handful of the players had made it known to him that they wanted to go into Rockliffe for a light warm-down session before attention turns to the trip to struggling Bolton on Tuesday night.
Boro flew back to Teesside after the game on Saturday night and the mood in the camp was bound to have been subdued after a disappointing performance and result in Wales.
“They’ve got to pick themselves up, we’ve had a good chat about it,” said the manager afterwards, before revealing how he planned to prepare for the trip to Bolton.
“They’ll have a day off on Sunday to clear their heads. It’s an optional day for them, four or five want to come in and do a little bit but I’ve always been one of them, at this stage of the season, they’re fit and ready to go. I think it’s more a mental thing.
“Having played so well against Bristol City and to not get anything, it’s that mental scar that goes into next game. They’ve done that at Villa and here where they’ve not performed to the level they’re capable of. They’ve got to be bigger and better.”
Armed bandits on Mondays killed seven persons in Ido-Ani, Ose local government area of Ondo state during a siege on the only commercial bank at Isewa quarters in the ancient community.
The robbery operation was said to have started around 2.00 pm and lasted for about one hour without any resistance.
At the end of the attack, five bank officials, a Vice Principal who was a customer and a police man reportedly fell to the bullets of the hoodlums who carted away undisclosed huge amount of money.
The robbers, it was learnt, drove a Sports Utility Vehicle to the
bank and went straight to the banking hall after using dynamites to blew off the security doors.
Sources said attempts were made to alert soldiers at Isua Akoko Military check point and police men from the vicinity but the robbers carried out their operation successfully before their arrival.
Also, it was learnt that a victim allegedly shot on the stomach was rushed to the Federal Medical Centre (FMC) Owo.
Others said to be on danger list were on admission at Ido-Ani General Hospital.
Sources hinted that one of bandits was however unlucky as he was caught by a vigilant soldier and thrown into police custody.
The Police Public Relations Officer (PPRO) Femi Joseph, a Superintendent of Police (SP), who confirmed the incident, said he could not give details of the incident as at press time.
Balogun of Ido-Ani, Chief Olatunji Oshati(Maxima) described the incident as too shocking.
He symphatised with the families of the deceased, urging appropriate authorities to beef up security in Ido-Ani and his environs.
Former Supervisor in Ose local government council, Hon. Isaac Obiniran, lamented he alerted security agents immediately the hoodlums invaded the town but the response was not timely.
A gang of armed robbers on Monday attacked a branch of a commercial bank at Ido Ani town, in Ose Local Government Area of Ondo State.
It was gathered that an unspecified amount of money was allegedly stolen by the bandits, who were said to have broken the door of the bank with a substance suspected to be dynamites.
It was also learnt that social and business activities in the town were paralysed for several hours as human and vehicular movements stopped while the robbery was going on. Residents of the town were said to run helter-skelter for safety to avoid stray bullets.
According to a source in the town, many people were feared killed while some sustained injuries as the robbers were said to be shooting indiscriminately during the robbery.
The source said, having got the information about the robbery, the combined team of policemen and soldiers stormed the scene and engaged the hoodlums in a gun duel. He added that some of the robbers went away with gunshot injuries.
The source said, “The attack has claimed the lives of some bankers and customers at the ATM point, while some were injured. The injured persons have been taken to the hospital.”
Another source said, “Two bankers have been confirmed dead already. Others injured were rushed to the hospital just now. Four people using the ATM have been confirmed dead too.”
When contacted, the Public Relations Officer of the Ondo State Police Command, Mr. Femi Joseph, confirmed the incident but said he could not give the details as of the time of the conversation with him.
“I can confirm it but I can’t give the details now but the commissioner of police is already on the way to the scene,” Joseph stated.
