He gets nervous when it takes you too long to respond because he is worried that something horrible happened to you — and the worst thing in the world would be losing you. He wouldn’t be able to handle that. Just the thought makes him sick to his stomach. So when he double texts you to find out why you are so late from work, it isn’t because she doesn’t trust you or because he wants to nag you. It’s because he’s worried you’ve gotten into some kind of horrible accident. He’s worried for your saftey.
He asks you about your plans for the weekend a few days in advance because he wants to make sure that he’ll be able to see you. He knows that waiting until the last second could mean missing out on another date with you and he doesn’t want that. Besides, he has his own life. If you tell him you are busy ahead of time, that means he can ask his other friends to hang out. He doesn’t want to wait until the last second to see if you’re free, because if you’re busy, he doesn’t want his day to go to waste. He has other things he can do.
He asks for details about your day because he actually gives a shit about you. He wants the best for you. He hopes that things are going well for you. He cares about your happiness as much as his own. He isn’t asking questions in order to invade your privacy. He’s asking questions because people like to talk about themselves and he doesn’t want to make the whole conversation about him and how he’s doing. He’s trying to keep the conversation balanced.
He texts you as soon as he wakes up in the morning because he wants you to know you are the first thing that enters his mind. He loves you, so he wants to spend the entire day talking to you. He understands that your world doesn’t revolve around him, he understands that you can’t always answer back within minutes, but he still wants to talk to you as much as possible. He loves hearing your jokes, your stories, your questions. They make his day complete.
He only comes across as clingy because he cares about you more than he cares about most people.
He isn’t going to go hours without texting you or weeks without asking to see you, because he considers you an important part of his world. He wants you around always. He isn’t going to play games with you and act like you matter less to him than you actually do. He doesn’t see the point in lying.
You might be uncomfortable with him openness. You might accuse him of suffocating you, of acting too clingy , too desperate .
But at least he wears his heart on his sleeve. At least he admits what you mean to him. At least he stays authentic. At least he puts in effort instead of expecting you to do all of the work. At least he gives a damn.
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